Many of you may be surprised to learn about the history
of Father’s Day and how recently it was established in the United States.
The first observance of a "Father's Day" was
held on July 5, 1908, in Fairmont, West Virginia, in the Williams Memorial
Methodist Episcopal Church South, now known as Central United Methodist Church.
Grace Golden Clayton was mourning the loss of her father, following the
Monongah Mining disaster that occurred on December 1907. 361 men lost their
lives, 250 of them fathers, leaving around a thousand fatherless children.
Clayton suggested that her pastor Robert Thomas Webb honor all those fathers
which they did, but Father’s Day was not celebrated anywhere outside of Fairmont
after that first celebration.
Sonora Smart Dodd and Her Father, William Jackson Smart
Later, on June 19, 1910, a Father's Day celebration was held at the YMCA in Spokane,
Washington by Sonora Smart Dodd. Her father, a Civil War veteran, William Jackson Smart, raised his six
children by himself.
After hearing a sermon about Jarvis' Mother's Day in 1909
at Central Methodist Episcopal Church, Ms. Dodd told her pastor that fathers
should have a similar holiday to honor them. I am certain, Ms. Dodd was
inspired to honor her father who was both mother and father to her and her
siblings.
Although she initially suggested June 5, her father's
birthday, the pastors did not have enough time to prepare their sermons, and
the celebration was deferred to the third Sunday in June. Several local
clergymen accepted the idea, and on June 19, 1910, the first Father's Day was
celebrated, sermons honoring fathers were presented throughout the city.
In the 1920s, Dodd stopped promoting the celebration
because she was busy studying at the Art Institute of Chicago. Father’s Day
faded into obscurity, even in Spokane. However, in the 1930s, Dodd returned to
Spokane and began to promote the celebration once again and raised awareness at
a national level. She requested the help of those trade groups that would
benefit most from the holiday, for example the manufacturers of ties, tobacco
pipes, and any traditional present for fathers. Naturally, businesses will
rally when there is money to be had. By 1938, she had the help of the Father's
Day Council, founded by the New York Associated Men's Wear Retailers to
consolidate and organize the holiday's commercial promotion. Americans resisted
the holiday for its first few decades, viewing it as nothing more than an
attempt by merchants to replicate the commercial success of Mother's Day, and
newspapers frequently featured cynical and sarcastic attacks and jokes.
However, the merchants remained resilient and even incorporated these attacks
into their advertisements. Sort of reminds me of the things which are said about
Valentine’s Day and, these days, about the commercialism of Christmas. Even
into the mid-1980s, the Father's Day Council wrote, "Father's Day has
become a Second Christmas for all the men's gift-oriented industries."
President Woodrow Wilson
So, now we get to the politics and money part. A bill to establish
national recognition of the holiday was introduced in Congress in 1913. In
1916, President Woodrow Wilson went to Spokane to speak at a Father's Day
celebration. He wanted to make it an officially recognized federal holiday, but
Congress resisted, fearing that it would become commercialized. US President
Calvin Coolidge recommended in 1924 that the day be observed throughout the
entire nation, but he stopped short at issuing a national proclamation. Two
earlier attempts to formally recognize the holiday had been defeated by
Congress. In 1957, Maine Senator Margaret Chase Smith wrote a Father's Day
proposal accusing Congress of ignoring fathers for 40 years while honoring
mothers, “thus singling out just one of our two parents". Now the part
that amazed me:
President Lyndon Johnson
In 1966, President Lyndon B. Johnson issued the first
presidential proclamation honoring fathers, designating the third Sunday in
June as Father's Day.
President Richard Nixon
Six years later, the day was made a permanent national
holiday when President Richard Nixon signed it into law in 1972.
Father's Day is celebrated worldwide to recognize
the contribution that fathers and
father figures make to the lives of their children. This day celebrates fatherhood and
male parenting. Although it is celebrated on
a variety of dates worldwide,
many countries observe this day on
the third Sunday in June.
Pop and his dog, Guess
It seems to me my family celebrated Father’s Day all my
life. I had no idea it was not really official until 1972. I’m glad my family
celebrated Father’s Day even before the official date because Pop was the kind
of father who raised his daughters to be self-reliant, strong, and well
mannered. He was my touchstone when I needed help figuring out the world and
the people in it. I miss his wise council and his confident strength. Happy
Father’s Day, Pop.
I honor all of you who are fathers or who have fathers either
in this world or in Heaven, HAPPY FATHER'S DAY.
Author, Sarah J. McNeal
Sarah
J. McNeal is a multi-published author of several genres
including time travel, paranormal, western and historical fiction. She is a
retired ER and Critical Care nurse who lives in North Carolina with her
four-legged children, Lily, the Golden Retriever and Liberty, the cat. Besides
her devotion to writing, she also has a great love of music and plays several
instruments including violin, bagpipes, guitar and harmonica. Her books and
short stories may be found at Prairie Rose Publications and its imprints Painted
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I did not know any of this. I never questioned where and when Father's Day was established, but God bless LBJ...one more thing the crusty "rough around the edges" Texas President that makes him look better still. Good for him.
ReplyDeleteToday in church was a great example of how differently Americans treat Mother's Day vs. Father's day. On Mother's Day, little children hand out roses to all mothers, and we have a little party after church with cake and punch, etc.
Today in church? Only the pastor said Happy Father's Day one time...and that was it.
Still, we do remember our fathers. I had two wonderful parents and for a father, no girl could ever ask for one better.
Thannks for this history..I never knew!
Well, Celia, I probably would not have researched Father's Day history except I needed a subject for this blog. LOL I can't remember a time when my family didn't celebrate Father's Day I remember back in the 50's when Mom bought a Father's Day cake that was shaped like a big, comfy chair with a pipe, slippers, and a dog. It was magnificent. We celebrated it the same way we did Mother's Day: a picnic down in the orchard, a cake, and presents.
ReplyDeleteI remember one Mother's Day when my church (Methodist) had a substitute minister. His sermon was about sex and the sanctity of marriage--sort of a bazaar sermon for Mother's Day. You would think in a time when there are so many single mothers raising kids alone, there would be some deeper, more engaging sermons on the importance of fathers.
You are so right about how little people celebrate Father's Day. In these days people act like fathers aren't important.
But like you, Celia, my father played a huge part in my life. I don't know what I would have done without him. Like your dad, mine was happy to have all girls (3 of us) because he only had brothers growing up. My mom was all hugs and love and my dad was all about wisdom and calm assurance. I miss them always.
Thank you so much for taking time out of the holiday to come visit my blog.
Thank you for this post! I had no idea of the history of Father's day!!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Lauri. I appreciate you dropping by.
ReplyDeleteI knew Hallmark had a roll in making Father's Day but I didn't know there was all this other stuff. We always celebrated Father's Day when I was little. And when my girls came along, they, too, honored their father. And there's no question in my mind that if my hubby were still alive, my girls and their girls would have done something special for their dad/granddad. Because dads can be very special to their children.
ReplyDeleteHey, E. Dads are as important as mothers. We live in a world that seems to discount fathers. It's all about single moms. Well, it's nice to care about mothers who end up alone, but it's gotten to the point where it seems people feel we just don't need dads, but we do. They have an integral part in raising children. I don't know where I'd be without my dad to guide me through the rough parts and to take my part when I needed someone strong.
DeleteI'm sorry to hear about the loss of your husband, E. I know that must have been hard on you and your girls.
Thank you so much for dropping in and sharing your thoughts.
The history of Father's Day is fascinating. Thank you for sharing it! I had no idea that Father's Day was such a recent thing.
ReplyDeleteAngela, I was surprised by how contemporary Father's Day was, too. I think my family was celebrating it before it became official.
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